Get comfortable with discomfort to stop people-pleasing

Get comfortable with discomfort to stop people-pleasing
 
Being a people-pleaser at work can hinder your career advancement as you prioritize others' needs over your own goals, writes Beatriz Victoria Albina, a master certified coach, who explains that people-pleasing stems from a desire to avoid discomfort and manage others' emotions. Albina suggests building tolerance for discomfort as a way to break the habit, starting with small steps, such as saying, "Let me think about it and get back to you," to give yourself time to consider whether you can take on more work.
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Full Story: SmartBrief/Leadership (11/20)

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