Often, the signs are right in front of us and are ignored. Other times, we simply refuse to recognize them at all. The will to pull our heads out of the sand and face the reality of what is happening is a survival choice. It comes with risk and courage. Facing the reality does not require that once we see view the landscape with unveiled eyes we must take a particular action. Not taking in the information, seeing it, feeling it, and deciding what to do or not do is a far more empowering route than ignoring what is happening. Being disrespected, ignored, overturned, divisive, unhappy, and isolated are all experiences that can be part of the consequence. But, there is never nothing to be done.  Sometimes simply recognizing and speaking the truth of the situation, out loud, is, itself, freeing. Sometimes, our action can help only a few but it is still valuable. Other times mustering the courage to leave is the best decision.  Read more...